A Tool to help children visualize the difference between 'Parents Problems vs Children's Problems', 'Okay vs Not Okay Secrets' and 'Good Coping verses Not so Good Coping'. This is done by using charts and cards. There are cards with examples on and the child places the correct card under the appropriate heading. You may need to read the cards out for younger children. Once the cards are all on the chart a discussion can then follow with the child.